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18 September 2011 @ 12:54 am
there was date!  
i lived!  even more than that it was good!

weird though, to be dating people after so long not dating people.  i feel like i've lived a kind of double existance up to this point - on the one hand "with" someone, so i didn't have to look or participate in any of the inane rituals surrounding that kind of stuff, and on the other, in a relationship that didn't give me what i needed, so i was always flirting with other people. but it's not the same.  no, not at all.

well, anyway, had a great time i think.  we pretty much kept the conversation going, managed to smooth over the rough parts fairly well for two complete strangers who are talking about their love lives (yes, i did cop to the fact that he was my first date after 15 years, and this seemed to get him excited about the prospect of making out - like seriously, he was excited and wanted to talk about kissing.)  he was funny, interesting, curious about me, not totally one track mind but not adverse to talking about stuff.  and while his music taste lends itself more towards the hippie then hard rock, we like similar types of tv (well, -ish) and he wants me to introduce him to firefly.

he's cute, and while he did a bit of name dropping it wasn't in a totally pretentious way, so yay.  and yay no date raping or anythign like that!  he paid for drinks, which was sweet, and texted me lots after, which was also sweet, and ...

yeah, i think i'll go out with this one again.  i'm curious now, since he did so much talking about kissing, about what it would be like to kiss him.  hopefully he lives up to his own hype. 

also, i think when i hit my third drink i did a bit of talking about blowjobs and how i like them.  but surely that can't be a bad thing, right?  i blame it on all the damn fanfic.  too much talking about the cock.

also posted to dreamwidth | you can reply here or there | um, but don't worry, i'm still an lj girl
your royal pie-nessentrenous88 on September 18th, 2011 08:21 am (UTC)
my monkied brainkatekat1010 on September 18th, 2011 01:57 pm (UTC)
savoy trufflesavoytruffle on September 18th, 2011 10:55 am (UTC)
fantastic! go you!
my monkied brainkatekat1010 on September 18th, 2011 01:57 pm (UTC)
thanks darling! it was strange, but good :D
littleotter73: Giles Smilelittleotter73 on September 18th, 2011 11:09 am (UTC)
How excellent! :)
my monkied brainkatekat1010 on September 18th, 2011 01:57 pm (UTC)
thanks lady!
cordelianne: Anya cordelianne on September 18th, 2011 12:06 pm (UTC)
Sounds fun! I hope the 2nd date is as good! :D
my monkied brain: tara - happy to see youkatekat1010 on September 18th, 2011 01:58 pm (UTC)
thanks darling! keep your fingers crossed for me!
Eurydice: mood - rock on (clem)eurydice72 on September 18th, 2011 03:39 pm (UTC)
Go you!

And isn't their cock one of guys' favorite topics of conversation? He's probably just glad you're not uptight about it, lol. ;)
my monkied brainkatekat1010 on September 21st, 2011 01:59 am (UTC)
that's what i was hoping! and it appears from frequency of text messages after that perhaps yes, he found that whole conversation a little bit interesting ;)
Chloe_Saraichloe_sarai on September 18th, 2011 09:33 pm (UTC)
LOL. Sounds like a classic first date! Big Yay for you!
my monkied brainkatekat1010 on September 21st, 2011 02:00 am (UTC)
:D thanks darling! it seriously was (weird!)
bexmaddybexmaddy on September 18th, 2011 11:20 pm (UTC)
Well, he's in for quite the treat: you're an amazing kisser
my monkied brainkatekat1010 on September 21st, 2011 02:00 am (UTC)
awww thnaks lady! though it's been so long at this point that i'm like entirely out of practice
i will write in words of fire: [dw] lookit mah timelord bride!poshlil on September 19th, 2011 11:59 pm (UTC)
Oh, well DONE you. :D I'm glad it all went well for you. I was hopeless at dating in my teens, more hopeless in my twenties and honestly, I think if anything happened with me and Kim, I'd totally resign myself to being an internet hermit. *eyeroll*

Keep us all posted on how the next one goes! (*snort* Blowjobs. I totally blame fic for all the filthy things I say when drunk. BAD FIC. NO COOKIE.)
my monkied brainkatekat1010 on September 21st, 2011 02:01 am (UTC)
i will keep you updated, not to worry lady! and yeah, seriously, BAD FIC, NO COOKIE.

oh, but wait, that's why i like fic! (at least sometimes!)
i will write in words of fire: [dw] oooh you saucy minxposhlil on September 21st, 2011 07:11 am (UTC)
Excellent!! (lol. Yes, that's exactly why we like fic.)